HELP! I'm a wreck!

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Registered: 08-01-2010
HELP! I'm a wreck!
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Thu, 08-12-2010 - 4:30pm

A few months ago I re-connected with my high school sweetheart via Facebook.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 4:51pm

Hi Little dreamer,


Wish I had an answer for you but I'm sending HUGS your way and hope you find the answers that you are looking for.


Its a tough call but ONLY you know what you want and need to do. What if you gave yourself some space from AP to clear your head do you think you might be able to make a rational decision then? You have lots of soul searching to do.


I wish you much peace & happiness in what ever you decide.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 07-24-2009
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 5:47pm

dreamer - i know that feeling is INCREDIBLY difficult!

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 7:53pm

Don't do ANYTHING!!!

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 8:11pm

I completely support what has been said here.


DON'T DO IT!!! NEVER LEAVE your H for an AP. If you are unhappy in your marriage and have decided its not worth salvaging- fine, leave it and live on your own for 12 mths. With a clear head you can decide who to 'date' after that.


As jane said the rush of chemicals is telling you that you love this man. Wait a few months, dont make any decisions and then see. As I said, leave the marriage ONLY if you were going to leave it anyway.


Iggyxx

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You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 12:01am

Couldn't agree more with the advice you've already been given!


Never, ever leave your M for an AP.

anotherseyes