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| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 8:01pm |
Here goes, I've never done anything like this before. So there fore I'm not sure where to start.
I met a man at my work. Me a bartender him a customer. I have to be honest. I didn't even like him at first. Then one day he asked me out to dinner I refused but did continue to flirt with him. Even though I'm a married women of 2 yrs been with hubbie for 16. I was only 16 when we first met.
Well, I've been seeing this guy on a reg basis and staying the night not sexual was very emotional. But it did turn sexual one time earlier this week. My husband did find out about this affair but hasb't a clue about the sexual. My husband want's to continue to work on our marraige and I don't feel the same way. He continues to get our daughter in the middle and telling her that i"m out wiht my new b/f and anything else he can think of.
Me and the om talk often and I didn't know what his true feelings were. Until late last week when He told me that he has deep feelings and that he enjoys the time we spend togehter nad would love to build a realtionshhip. He's never married no children. I think I'm falling in love with him. Or at least I think, But then again how does one know?
He wants to take me to Mexico which of course sounds great but a lil unrealistic.
Well, sorry to babble. But my husband is making me feel guilty and awfyl for wanting out of our marraige. I don't want to leave for this other man. I want to leave beacuse we had issues before otherwise would I be out looking for someone else???????
My husbands guilt is killing me. He won't even agree to a sepeation it's all or none for him.. I don't hink that's fair?

Hi breezy and welcome,
not sure that I can help out in anyway... but I've sort of been where you are right now.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
hi lbreezy32 and welcome to the board!
honey, you have to get some time and space to yourself -- no H, no OM and think about what YOU want -- not H's guilt, or OM's desires, but what you truely want for your future.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board