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Help - Possible DD!!!
| Mon, 09-15-2008 - 11:49pm |
As you all know I have been out of the A for months. AP and I are still friends, somewhat.
| Mon, 09-15-2008 - 11:49pm |
As you all know I have been out of the A for months. AP and I are still friends, somewhat.
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Is your husband computer savvy enough to be able to retrieve things that have been erased? If not, then I would tell him that he was having problems with his marriage and that he was friends with several women at work, but you're the one he felt most comfortable talking intimately with. I would make sure, also, that ex-AP knows all about what is happening and can back you up if need be.
Or, you could just tell him the truth and let the chips fall where they may. You say you don't love him, so why you're wanting to stay in the marriage, I have no idea. Unless maybe you really do love him, but you're just confused.
Either way, good luck.
I agree with the previous poster, just tell him the truth at this point.
Thank you guys for the advice but it all came out.
Jackson,
I just don't know how to tell him it was over two years time and not just a few months.
I personally don't think there is any need for all the details.
Obxbell thanks for the hug.
I'm in your situation as far as not being in love anymore, except my H hasn't found out about the current EA I'm in.
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