HELP .... where do I start

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
HELP .... where do I start
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Wed, 09-16-2009 - 3:29pm

I don’t know if I am posting on the right board; I was here 2+ years ago; in the same situation with the same person. I need this to end; it can’t go on forever.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 10:42am

Hi hot,


Wow, I wish I had some really great advice for you...all I can think of is to suggest you go to the EAS board and read some of the posts there. There are some really good ideas

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 11:11am

Hi hot-


Have you considered just ignoring his messages next time he reappears?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 11:39am

Happy,


I do get myself all pysched up to think if I do get a text from him I will ignore it and not respond; I always respond. I just want to know why ?? Why can't I focus on what really matters in life ?? Why do I feel the need to run to his open door ?? Why can't I just tell him NO.


:*(

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 1:07pm

Hi hot-


I understand what you are saying and I think some of us (myself included) have been there done that.