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| Fri, 04-30-2004 - 9:56pm |
I have not posted her for about a year now. MM and I have been having an EMA for 2 yrs now. We just got busted last weekend by W. He took me to NY to see Chicago on broadway for my birthday. She found out because the he order the hotel room throught Expedia and they sent a confirmation email, and she was able to break into AOL account. Did anyone elso know even if you are password protected AOL still stores email on PC? Worst part, we all work together. MM had to take a leave of absence and she confronted me at work. She told me if I left him alone she would not tell my H. I think she is still in shoch and is going to call. Any advice?

Obviously, something has to change in that setting, so I guess first off, I'd start looking for another job - I know, not always easy to come by and it also means not being able to see him each day - however, it probably would be more comfortable all around.
Second, you have to decide whether or not you want to or even can continue your A. Whether it's at all possible under the circumstances. Now that W knows, MM will be on a very tight leash if he's even allowed to go out on his own without W.
Plus the emotional tally between you and MM is going to be interesting to say the least. I think things are very seriously going to change.
I'm really sorry that this had to happen. You will make it through - trust me. Write as often as you need to - if nothing else, just to vent.
Good luck, best wishes, and let us know how it all turns out!
jpcstpaul