He's just too busy for this anymore...
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| Mon, 08-09-2010 - 2:42am |
Hi all
Well if you've been keeping up with my story, A with MM (Im married) for nearly 18mths. Great hot torrid start. Lots of 'I love you' and 'we should be together'. A few guilt trips later and we are still plodding along more as FWB with strong feelings.
But the last few months have been rough (hell ever since Feb it has been rough - guilt trip #2). His texts are less often, coffee and lunch less often, play dates less often. He still initiates things etc- its like our old Affair but on Xanax.
Now I feel frustrated, abandoned and annoyed most of the time. I keep hoping this will get better but I dont think it will. I have thought and semi tried some suggestions from you girls to get him to up the ante a bit. But he really is a stress head and workaholic.
As cleverly as he compartmentalises our A from his life, he is able to compartmentalise his life from our A. So what do I do now. I just text him saying that he doesnt know how much quick texts from him cheer me up. Not sure what (if) he'll respond.
He said August is his busiest month. So maybe I should just write this whole month off. But then what?? I dont want to end it as I know his ego will explode and we wont even be friends. So how do I manage this?
Iggy :(

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Thanks guys
Im more relaxed for sure, but thats how these things are huh. Just when you have had enough, they do something and keep you hooked :)
But I'll hold on to my epiphany. This will end and I will be ok when it does.
Thanks Marie- I appreciate what you are saying and I have already decided to let him 'be busy'. The problem is it happens too regularly. But all good- Im happy to lay low a bit. I need to make this A less important in my life.
Oh its winter over here at the moment :)
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