Hey gave me a date

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
Hey gave me a date
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Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:43am
He gave me a date for when he's moving out of the house. It's soon. I'm still processing. I honestly never expected this.
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Registered: 02-23-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 12:34pm
You mean both of you are leaving your M's to be together? Wow, thats very brave!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:09pm
Or stupid :-) I actually don't know what is going to happen. Moving out is only one step in a very long journey. And I'm still at home. I know it is incredibly hard for him to leave. He is so worried about his kids, which I completely understand. It's funny, I no longer feel like I'm in an affair. Everything has just become so real. It's an odd feeling and I'm struggling a bit to wrap my mind around it. I really do love this man and only want what is best for him, but I am starting to feel like a homewrecker in some respects. Intellectually, I know that's not the case, but emotionally, it's a lot harder.
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Registered: 02-23-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:17pm

if you are a homewrecker,then he is too. Let him stay single for a while and see if he can stay committed to you or wants to shop around. if a single guy ( me included ! ha ha ha )sticks around a MW for more than 6 months ( without sex preferably ),then he could really be feeling more for you than even he knows!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:44pm

Hi IDK -


Well that is quite a development isn't it??

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-23-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 4:44pm
idkwiwt,

WOW....

U know im here for you....

Hope all goes ok - you deserve to find happiness with him.....

GOOD LUCK!

Lovers_ together xxxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 9:45pm

Hi Tgr,


Yes, it is. Quite. I have to be honest -- I was

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Registered: 06-22-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 9:48pm
Thanks LT. You said it all -- WOW. My head is still reeling. I never thought this day would arrive. I pray to God that he doesn't let me down. I am so worried but I'm trying not to dwell on that and instead just focus on the possibilities and on how much happiness he brings to my life.