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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2009
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Sun, 07-26-2009 - 8:16pm

Hi,


I was on here under a different name a few years back.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
In reply to: sxydc
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 10:11pm

Sxydc, thanks for the post. I relate 100%. I have 3 AP myself and for me it's all about sex. I lost my heart once to earlier AP years ago and promised myself, never again. There's lots of low hanging fruit out there - no reason to deny yourself!

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2009
In reply to: sxydc
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 4:34pm
If you can lessen your emotional attachment to you MAP, I think that's a great thing. Just have fun. You may run into serious trouble if you start things with more than one person in the office tho'. I'm certainly not telling you not to find an additional AP if that's what you want, but I would say you have the at work AP box checked off already. I agree that there is a lot of low hanging fruit out there. Go pick from another tree.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: sxydc
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 4:45pm

Welcome back to the board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
In reply to: sxydc
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 6:44pm

>I mean, I still love him and I am sure he will always be a part of my life to some extent, but I used to be in pain when I couldn't see him, I used to dream of him, think of him all the time, couldn't bear to be apart.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2009
In reply to: sxydc
Sun, 08-02-2009 - 2:13pm

thanks for all the replies everyone!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
In reply to: sxydc
Sun, 08-02-2009 - 2:30pm

I'm no expert but it sounds like you have pretty much outgrown your husband.