hi girls what wrong with me with sg

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Registered: 04-15-2003
hi girls what wrong with me with sg
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Sun, 08-17-2003 - 10:03am
hi girls help lm not ready give sg yet l know l should but feel vwery emotioanl close to him he has been here for me last 15 months ugh what is wrong with me.but hing he not ready give me up either he still wants me in his life.talking good friend last night and she said he cares about me and wants me in his life to.why us would keep calling me all the time if guy doesn't like or care about you they won't keep calling you. kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-17-2003 - 3:53pm
Hi Kimmy,

You know your sg likes you and cares about you, but he is not able/willing to give you what you want and need right now. So how long do you hold on, hoping he will change? That's up to you, but I think you have to look at it from the perspective that he will never change... I mean, if you knew without a doubt today that things with him would never change the way you want them to, how long would you stick around?

Your R with him has been going on a long time, and he has never been able to give you *quite* enough... are you sure, despite how much you care for each other, that he is the right one for you?

Lots of hugs to you Kimmy. It's not easy to think this stuff through, and THEN ACT on it. But at some point, and you will know when, it will be *enough!* and you will move on and take care of yourself.

love, lily