Hi Guys :-) (Update on Me)

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Registered: 01-23-2009
Hi Guys :-) (Update on Me)
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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 6:37pm

Hello to all,


I posted my story few weeks ago, I'm pretty new don't post much but I do read everyone's post everyday. A little background, I have been having an affair with MM for about 6 months ago. Started out just physical and of course later changed after 3 months. He's been married for over 26 yrs. We had the D-day 2 weeks ago. W wanted another chance at working things out he went along with it. It lasted only a week and he didn't want to do this anymore..(lies, deceit, etc.). After talking to few of his friends and relatives he finally decided to end his M last Friday. Told her that he wanted out of course there was alot of drama. I had NC with him throughout this whole time. I finally found out today what was going on. He sat the kids down and told them what is going on and told them he's just not happy and will never be

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 8:42pm

Hi Lost -


In answer to your question - yes - I experienced exactly the feelings you are having right now.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 01-23-2009
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 10:43pm

Hi tgrbabe,


Thank you for your support... as sad and happy this ordeal is... I feel like a huge weight has lifted off my chest. I just spoke to him (don't know what to call him yet)