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| Mon, 03-08-2004 - 11:58am |
I am new to this board and am trying to get my bearings.
I am in the process of separating from my H. I have a DD and a DS who I am very worried about in all of this. I have been seeing OM since July and am happier than I have ever been.
I am in the process of separating from my H. I have a DD and a DS who I am very worried about in all of this. I have been seeing OM since July and am happier than I have ever been.
I would love to know a little about all of you. Are any of you planning to leave your H? etc. etc. etc.

My OW and I are planning to proceed slowly in a relationship once I am out of the house. I do love her with all my heart though and I am also happier and more sure of myself than I have ever been.
Good luck in all the difficult things you're going through. Keep us updated as I enjoy hearing from others who are going through many of the same things I am.
I am totally in love with OM and can't wait to be with him, but he insists (& I DO know) that we need to give it some time since I am extremely vulnerable right now.
DH doesn't want to hear that it is over and that is making it very hard. Won't give any input into the kids, money, house, etc.
I found the perfect apartment (which I can actually afford) but it is available April 1 and now I feel like I have so much to do in such a small amount of time.
Thanks for your support.
hi margaritagirl and welcome to the board!
yes indeed, OM is right, you do need to take it slow in building YOUR new life.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
I've been in a sexual A for a little over a year. We're both married. I've been m for 5 yrs. MM for 1 yr. 6 mo. I have a 4 yr. old. He has no children. We have no intention to go any further. Just like having sex with each other..lol
I'm not in love with H, and I want out of my M. I just have to wait till our dd is out of preschool. That's an extra 130 a month. plus I have a car payment, so moving out isn't an option. I guess If I got another job, but I guess I wanna ride it out and figure things out first before making any kind of Major decisions in what I want. If I do leave, then it's NOT for my mm. Just wanted to clear that up..lol
But welcome and post any time you need to..
I've been seeing my OM for about a month now.