hickey from wife!
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| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 8:54am |
I thought I could keep my emotions in check and just enjoy the time we spend together, but yesterday when I saw MM he had a hickey!!!!!! My heart felt like it broke into a thousand pieces, and I totally withdrew and had a horrible night! I went out last night thinking of numbing my brain and heart, but I couldn't get into it and went home early!!
I'm so depressed about it! I mean I know they still have sex and stuff, but WTF?
I guess I have 2 choices: tell him my female emotions have gotten the best of me and tell him the way I feel; or just ride it out and enjoy while I can! Don't think I can bear another hickey as a reminder that there's someone else though! Or I guess I could just say nothing and pretend nothing he does bothers me. He just won't make any extra time for me at all. I can get away this weekend b/c my husband is going out, but do you think MM can get away for 2 hours?!
Thanks!

However, just try and ignore the hickey and move on.
You know he still wants to be with you, that means something.
Alot of these guys, like my MM, is lucky if they make it with the W once in a blue moon.
So give him his blue moon, you can be his sunshine!!
Dusty
Sugarbee
I can share with his wife I guess, but I certainly don't want to see any evidence of it. I don't let my husband leave any signs on me (hmmmm, will have to try that and see what MM's response is?!)
I get those temporary tatoos sometimes and put them in spots that he would especially like!! And I think it gets the attention I wanted whenever I do that!!
Then when I get home, I make sure I take them off with alcohol before H gets a chance to see them, I don't think he'd like them and he'd for sure ask me why the heck I had them where I did!!
I think it's great that you got to let him feel the shoe on the other foot! This way, he won't start taking you for granted. I don't really have too many "dark times" about my relationship, but when I do it's related to not feeling special anymore. Let him see that you ARE special, and that other men out there see it and know it. Good luck to you!
He and I talk about everything...
As much as my heart thuds when he talks about his wife, we do talk about her...
Morbid curiousity on my part? Or just my way of keeping grounded in our relationship?
I really wonder sometimes whether I'm totally gullible, or totally naieve, but I've come to the conclusion that this man is good to me and good FOR me...
Although I second guess this relationship often, he makes me think...
::::SIGH::::