Hiding the Cell Phone...

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Registered: 07-28-2010
Hiding the Cell Phone...
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Thu, 07-29-2010 - 9:48am

I am curious how others "hide" the cell or how is contact with AP established on a frequent basis? My H is clueless with basically everything and I pay the bills so he never sees

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 10:35am

Hello,

Well for me I use a instant messenger service (yahoo Google AIM...etc). you can chat on your pc or on your phone. With my cell (I have a droid) the IM's do not show up on my bill at all. I got my self into trouble with texting awhile back, so thats a big no-no.

I also have a pay as you go phone (though I don't really use it) I keep that one in my office. My H does not know I have it, But if he were to find the bill it does not show cell numbers just amount of texts.

Other than that I make sure i clear my chat history, browser history and clear google search history. and keep everything pass word protected. Just always remember delete delete delete....

Hope that helps

Scarlet

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 10:52am

Before d-day, I had to hide the cell phone bill from H (I pay the bills, but he often opens them, checks them, then puts them in the organizer)-it's not itemized, but it showed the number of texts, and prior to AP, I seldom texted, so it looked suspicious.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 12:43pm

I keep my cell phone on vibrate BUT my AP rarely calls me. We made an agreement if he does that he block his # *67. My husband pays the cell phone bill online and about a year ago he noticed a certain number coming in at all times of the day and text messages as well. He also questioned the lengths of the phone calls.


Needless to say he called the # but my AP didn't pick up and it went to an automated VM (thank goodness). When I arrived to work I asked AP to please change his # like NOW. He did and when H tried calling the # again it was no longer in service. After that incident I don't use my cell to call him.


I can go online on my blackberry and text him, that never shows up on our bill. I also NEVER use the computer or house phone in my house. I don't want to risk it and I try to remain 2 steps ahead of him at all times. I find it amazing how creative I've become, never knew I had it in me.


But like one of the posts commented: DELETE, DELETE, DELETE!!! I've known a people that have been caught because of there cell phone.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 12-24-2009
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 1:25pm
read the Betrayed Spouse site....that's how most get caught
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Registered: 07-24-2009
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:29pm

confused: I use blackberry instant messenger.

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Registered: 05-15-2008
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 3:38pm
I usually keep mine on vibrate. Its a droid and my H has no idea how to use it either...lol.
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Registered: 05-24-2009
Thu, 07-29-2010 - 4:44pm

I have known a LOT of people, not just famous ones,

MASAlterego


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