His Anniversary

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Registered: 01-12-2009
His Anniversary
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Wed, 08-04-2010 - 3:53pm

Hello all~


This weekend is my AP's anniversary. I shared with him how I may seem distant because of it and to please forgive me in advance. He didn't seem too bothered by the fact that I remembered or by the fact that it bothers me. Should it bother me

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 5:09pm

Hi!

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Registered: 07-24-2009
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 6:29pm

I do get jealous when I know AP is taking his wife out.

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Registered: 01-31-2010
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 7:38pm
I was unaware when his anniversary was last year. This year I won't pay much mind.
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Registered: 01-12-2009
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 8:26pm

I am so glad that this past weekend has come and gone. It was my AP's anniversary yesterday. And I did so good keeping myself occupied. By my own choice I did not respond to many of his texts. It's just too hard. I chose not to

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Registered: 12-09-2004
Mon, 08-09-2010 - 9:18pm

 

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 2:42am

Well flrtn, you got ME all stirred up now! LOL


How long have you been with your AP? I can see that if it's a fairly new thing you might want to hold your tongue...but I think you should let him know that you are just

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 9:42am

My AP is single. I've been with him for 11 years and have never mentioned my anniversary (which happens to be coming up very shortly). He has never asked. Often my H and I go away for a few days at this time, but my OM just knows that I'm going away - we do that other times also so it's no big deal. If we go out to eat I might mention we went out to eat without the reason. I dunno, it seems unnecessary to mention the date - why would my OM need to know?

I will say this - it's not just "another day", not to me, not to my H. It does mean something for sure. But that's us. Maybe that's another reason I don't mention it - because I might feel obligated to smooth over any hurt in him with lies of it "not meaning anything". I don't know. Or maybe I just feel that my anniversary is something between me and my H. Whatever.

I'm sorry you already know about your AP's anniversary and that it causes you pain.

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Registered: 12-09-2004
Tue, 08-10-2010 - 10:35am
LOL!