His life is a mess and now i know why!
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His life is a mess and now i know why!
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:45pm |
This going to be rather long but i need to know how to deal with this.I am having a affair with a married man i am single.It started 4 years ago my ex boyfriend who works with him introduced me to him.Two weeks later i ran into him we all work together but in different areas.We talked he asked for my phone number and yes i knew he was married.He called the next day and we talked for four hours.That was the start of our relationship.
One year later he told me he was in love with me but was not going to leave his kids.He had his first marriage break up and his child from that was really messed up because of it.That child is now an adult.
What has happened in the last 9 months has turned my world upside down.A few of my close friends know about him and one of them was girl friend of mine.I just found out in the last week she had him charged with sexual assault.That was nine months ago the only reason i found out is because his lawyer called me to ask to come to court for him.To tell the court he never hurt me or was rough with me.
I now know why he told then that he could not see me any more and could not speak to me. He led me to belive that i was becoming to attached to him and he thought it was best for me to move on.I have talked to him since his lawyer called and he told me he was so sorry he never meant to hurt to me that his wife and kids hate him.That his marriage is now beyond repair and that once this was over court wise he would be moving out.
I am so hurt and mad with him right now i cannot even see straight.He put me through hell once when he stopped speaking to me and now i cannot feel that he is using me for court and nothing else.I am hurt that he slept with my girl friend but hey you fool aro
und on your wife your going to do it on the other woman too i guess?
It also explains why my girlfriend started to avoid me then moved without giving me her number.He keep telling on me on the phone he loved me missed me and the talks and that the fact we had a lot of fun together.Meanwhile my heart broke when he stopped speaking to me.
I have gone on with my life in the last few months i have missed him i won't lie.But do i belive him when he says he did not want to drag me into this and he still loves me?
I won't go to court for him unless they call me in.
Sorry this is so long and rambles i just need to vent.Any of your thoughts are welcome!What to do?
One year later he told me he was in love with me but was not going to leave his kids.He had his first marriage break up and his child from that was really messed up because of it.That child is now an adult.
What has happened in the last 9 months has turned my world upside down.A few of my close friends know about him and one of them was girl friend of mine.I just found out in the last week she had him charged with sexual assault.That was nine months ago the only reason i found out is because his lawyer called me to ask to come to court for him.To tell the court he never hurt me or was rough with me.
I now know why he told then that he could not see me any more and could not speak to me. He led me to belive that i was becoming to attached to him and he thought it was best for me to move on.I have talked to him since his lawyer called and he told me he was so sorry he never meant to hurt to me that his wife and kids hate him.That his marriage is now beyond repair and that once this was over court wise he would be moving out.
I am so hurt and mad with him right now i cannot even see straight.He put me through hell once when he stopped speaking to me and now i cannot feel that he is using me for court and nothing else.I am hurt that he slept with my girl friend but hey you fool aro
und on your wife your going to do it on the other woman too i guess?
It also explains why my girlfriend started to avoid me then moved without giving me her number.He keep telling on me on the phone he loved me missed me and the talks and that the fact we had a lot of fun together.Meanwhile my heart broke when he stopped speaking to me.
I have gone on with my life in the last few months i have missed him i won't lie.But do i belive him when he says he did not want to drag me into this and he still loves me?
I won't go to court for him unless they call me in.
Sorry this is so long and rambles i just need to vent.Any of your thoughts are welcome!What to do?

Does it matter, do you really need this type of trouble in your life, what if he did what he is charged with???
I suggest that you can do better then this guy and deserve better to.
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