Hitting a low

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Registered: 12-28-2009
Hitting a low
Mon, 01-04-2010 - 1:24am

AP says he needs to cool things off a little because his GF is starting to be really suspicious. While I know that this is all part of an A, I am disappointed. I have really had him as often as I wanted, as though we were an ordinary couple. Having to adjust to seeing him less is going to suck. It is also going to make things a bit awkward at work because we are not going to do a great job seeing less of each other and we're going to become less good at keeping things professional.


I don't know if AP is any more capable than me of slowing things down, but as long as that's what he thinks he needs I'm willing to play by his rules. He called it in our chat tonight though. He told me that I'm "in his blood" and he staying away from me will be the challenge of his life. I feel exactly the same. I guess time will tell if we can be good.