The Holidays

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Registered: 10-03-2008
The Holidays
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Wed, 12-24-2008 - 9:04am

what are you expectations of your AP throughout the holidays? will your AP meet those expectations?

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 12-24-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 12:53pm
Well, the holidays aren't that big of a deal with AP and his family. They aren't into big family get togethers ( actually they don't have much family) and are just getting together with his mother-in-law for dinner and exchanging gifts. I, on the other hand, do have a big family ( my husbands side) and we do make a big deal about getting together and doing things...which makes it harder on my part if and when I decide to be with AP for good. I will definintely miss all of that.
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Registered: 01-27-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 1:10pm

AP and i had our own special christmas day and night last week, and we have organised another next week to make up for lost time and to celebrate the new year, we

"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"


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Registered: 09-17-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 6:05pm

MM came over this morning, helped me wrap the kids presents, then he helped me clean the kitchen. After that, we called the kids in, he gave us our presents from him, we got matching silver heart necklaces with a little diamond chip in them. We gave him his (an organizer/date book, and a good pen because as he gets a tad older, he forgets a lot of his meetings, but that may be because I distract him so much). Then, when the girls went in to the other room, he handed me another package, this one with a multi colored sapphire and diamond ring, it is so pretty.


Then, he went home, his grandkids came in late lastnight. He called a few minutes ago, the boys are out having a snowball fight, since it doesn't snow too often where they live, and we have over a foot from our first two storms this years. He will try to call me later this evening, if his son and grandsons give him a minute to himself. If I don't hear from him I know he is thinking of me and wishing I could be there with them.


He will try to call tomorrow, but again, it's the same thing, but, in addition to his son and his so, and the grandkids, his daughter and her dh will also be there, so, he really may not be able to call, but, again, even if he doesn't I know he is wishing I was there with him.


So, whether I get

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sun, 12-28-2008 - 1:00pm
my holiday was wonderful...had lunch with AP and DS on XMAS eve....gave him his gifts, and he gave DS and me ours...the day after XMAS i was able to go on a shopping spree, i bought 5 outfits, a pair of stilletto boots, 2 sweat suits, 3 sweaters, and 2 shirts....DS was able to get that itouch 16mb or something like that...was with AP for 6 hours...then spoke to him all XMAS day and the day after....saw AP again 12/27/08 all afternoon and night..we had a great time...did dinner with DS...he made sure DS had enough cash to take his girl out on a date....and then AP and I had a great evening....well 12/28 and don't know if i will see AP, today but if not it's okay...i'm kind of spoiled so he can have a pass on this one......

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 12-28-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sun, 12-28-2008 - 6:09pm
I miss my love very much. I didn't get to see him all, I thought I would go crazy yesterday morning, I wanted to drive by his house just to be closer to him. Nuts, I know. Next week will be the same, I hate time way from work.
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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Mon, 12-29-2008 - 9:41am
uhhhmmm don't drive by his home..that wouldn't be very good idea..not at all what if he sees you...or just so happens to be looking out the window...that wouldn't be good..just relax and chill...you'll get time with him....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 5:57am

hello tyger,

my holidays were not as good as i thought they would be,as you know.But he is going to make up for all the lost time --tonight! yippie!! its new years eve and he will spend the night and the entire day tommorow ,with me.I am gonna eat him alive,lol!

the nights are the toughest on me!

You really do have a good guy on your hands.

have a good new year! wish you the best with your AP.its tough to find love and why did we end up finding it with a M one?

I cant wait for tonight.......

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 1:52pm

MM went above my expectations of him for the holidays.

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 12-31-2008 - 2:45pm
you have a great new year too..i'm so happy you get to spend the holiday with him..

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Fri, 01-02-2009 - 9:52am
for new years we text and talked but,i had to work overtime because of emergency response..he was out of town..but not with W...he had to help with emergency response as well....lol lol lol lol but we spoke and text...i feel bad because he's called and text but i wasn't able to respond right

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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