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The Holidays
| Wed, 12-24-2008 - 9:04am |
what are you expectations of your AP throughout the holidays? will your AP meet those expectations?
| Wed, 12-24-2008 - 9:04am |
what are you expectations of your AP throughout the holidays? will your AP meet those expectations?
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i am soo happy for you ! you are right-- your AP spoils you,you lucky girl.Our New Years Night was amazing.my AP made up really well for the lost time ;)
I am soo wanting my AP for myself and hate to see him go home to his W ,Grrr! How do you see your AP going back to his W everyday?I am very jealous even though he spent a very important day/night with me.
Miss your AP,hon! it makes the make-up mind blowing,lol!
sometimes i get upset but i try not to think about it..i usually go out with the girls...another thing i hate is for when i ask him for time and he says no..so i don't really ask anymore...i leave that up to him...it kills me to ask him, then him have to tell me he cant, or no or something..because in this i really need to feel special...get me...so in my mind somewhere i rationalize him asking me to spend time with him as being special to him...i don't know...i really am feeling some type of way right now because i haven't seen him in about a week..but that's because he was out of town working...i was working OT..so time has been limited..and haven't been able to respond to him right away or that much because i was catching up on rest..and when i would respond or try to get in contact he was catching up on rest..so we've been missing one another a whole bunch...i just miss him..i know i should feel lucky because a lot of people don't get to see their AP's as frequently or talk to them as frequently as i do.....
sort of why i am on the board today...i don't want to start tripping out on him because i miss him kwim....i text him early this morning and asked him to come watch football with me today at a sportsbar, but i haven't gotten a response...i suppose that means maybe he can't or doesn't want to....and it's very rare for me to ask for time...i only did because i miss him lots....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Awww tyger ((( hugs))).
you are always happy with your AP or your special 'whateva you wanna call him';) .Hey,he will come around.You are special hon.NC can drive crazy big time! Think of all the good times you have with him.he is not doing it on purpose,is he? Chill,honey.
I am jealous of you as well,tygerzize ;) You have a good AP who doesnt play with your head and spoils you.You not dating others makes him special as well.
Just trying to remind you how lucky you are!
I am here if you need to talk .((( hugs))))
P.S. Did you read the post down in the other folder.I guess i offended the poster by calling her lover 'as ,spineless,etc'. Interesting thing to note is that she didnt defend her H but the OM ;)!
I am also going to get to see AP in a little over a week. We planned a get together while his W is out of town. I am taking a trip to his side of the country. I'm excited and a little nervous as in the past we have always been around each other at work-related functions. But we'll get to be together without having to worry about co-workers finding out. Should be fun!
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
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