The Holidays

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Registered: 10-03-2008
The Holidays
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Wed, 12-24-2008 - 9:04am

what are you expectations of your AP throughout the holidays? will your AP meet those expectations?

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sat, 01-03-2009 - 10:48am

i am soo happy for you ! you are right-- your AP spoils you,you lucky girl.Our New Years Night was amazing.my AP made up really well for the lost time ;)

I am soo wanting my AP for myself and hate to see him go home to his W ,Grrr! How do you see your AP going back to his W everyday?I am very jealous even though he spent a very important day/night with me.

Miss your AP,hon! it makes the make-up mind blowing,lol!

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 11:03am

sometimes i get upset but i try not to think about it..i usually go out with the girls...another thing i hate is for when i ask him for time and he says no..so i don't really ask anymore...i leave that up to him...it kills me to ask him, then him have to tell me he cant, or no or something..because in this i really need to feel special...get me...so in my mind somewhere i rationalize him asking me to spend time with him as being special to him...i don't know...i really am feeling some type of way right now because i haven't seen him in about a week..but that's because he was out of town working...i was working OT..so time has been limited..and haven't been able to respond to him right away or that much because i was catching up on rest..and when i would respond or try to get in contact he was catching up on rest..so we've been missing one another a whole bunch...i just miss him..i know i should feel lucky because a lot of people don't get to see their AP's as frequently or talk to them as frequently as i do.....


sort of why i am on the board today...i don't want to start tripping out on him because i miss him kwim....i text him early this morning and asked him to come watch football with me today at a sportsbar, but i haven't gotten a response...i suppose that means maybe he can't or doesn't want to....and it's very rare for me to ask for time...i only did because i miss him lots....

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 1:57pm

Awww tyger ((( hugs))).

you are always happy with your AP or your special 'whateva you wanna call him';) .Hey,he will come around.You are special hon.NC can drive crazy big time! Think of all the good times you have with him.he is not doing it on purpose,is he? Chill,honey.

I am jealous of you as well,tygerzize ;) You have a good AP who doesnt play with your head and spoils you.You not dating others makes him special as well.

Just trying to remind you how lucky you are!

I am here if you need to talk .((( hugs))))

P.S. Did you read the post down in the other folder.I guess i offended the poster by calling her lover 'as ,spineless,etc'. Interesting thing to note is that she didnt defend her H but the OM ;)!

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Registered: 11-21-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 2:24pm
I'm honestly glad they are over and things will return to normal. We did some emailing over the holidays and some texting/calling on the few days we did both work but we'll be able to talk a lot more now. He is extremely careful when he is at home.
I am also going to get to see AP in a little over a week. We planned a get together while his W is out of town. I am taking a trip to his side of the country. I'm excited and a little nervous as in the past we have always been around each other at work-related functions. But we'll get to be together without having to worry about co-workers finding out. Should be fun!
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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: tygerzize
Wed, 01-07-2009 - 5:32am
it wasn't NC at all..he still called like 7 times

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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