Holidays and the MW/OW
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Holidays and the MW/OW
| Mon, 12-08-2003 - 9:17am |
I have been reading a lot about those who are NOT looking forward to the Holidays.
I wonder if those issues are different among MW and OW?
I know that I am looking forward to the holidays, so much to do, with family and the kids. I know I will miss MM, and I know he will be doing things with his family and W's family, and that does hurt(I long for the Christmas when it's MM and I and our kids around the Christmas tree on Christmas morning). I'll be travling out of town for a 4 day weekend. To spend time with H's sister and kids. But for the most part I'm looking forward to the holiday season!
I love this time of year,
dayz
I wonder if those issues are different among MW and OW?
I know that I am looking forward to the holidays, so much to do, with family and the kids. I know I will miss MM, and I know he will be doing things with his family and W's family, and that does hurt(I long for the Christmas when it's MM and I and our kids around the Christmas tree on Christmas morning). I'll be travling out of town for a 4 day weekend. To spend time with H's sister and kids. But for the most part I'm looking forward to the holiday season!
I love this time of year,
dayz

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The harder part for me is that any time OM goes on vacation, he is super-busy at work for the 2-3 weeks before his vacation, and in some ways it's like he's already gone. He tries his best to see me and call me, but there's just no denying that I have to come after work and family obligations (as he does for me). That means I end up being stood up at the last minute, which he never does at any other time - and even though he apologizes profusely, and I know he doesn't take me for granted, it still sucks. I told him that before his next vacation, we should just pretend that we don't have this relationship and not plan to see or email each other for the couple weeks beforehand - it is just too hard to put up with. Too late for this time, but I'm going to give it a try next time. He wasn't happy, but he wants whatever I want.
Hey mitzy,
I do plan on heading to the beach... and we will be in Sydney... close to Bondi Beach... so hopefully I'll get there.
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Sure opal... head on down :)
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