HOLY CRAP - Worst night with AP EVER!

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Registered: 08-19-2010
HOLY CRAP - Worst night with AP EVER!
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Wed, 08-25-2010 - 1:16pm

So get this....I met AP for our 4th encounter. It was at a rest stop since he drives for a living. I saw this sketchy guy pacing around the area and should have thought twice about it but I didnt. AP got there, gave me huge hug and kiss and we proceeded to his truck where for 45 minutes - heaven existed. He was so sweet and cuddly, asked me to call his name while doing the deed. :) Anyways, he walks me to my car and we discover (actually my husbands car I was driving) someone smashed out the window and STOLE EVERY THING INSIDE! Im talking 2 new $400 Canon digi cameras I had just bought and not even out of the package, my purse with wallet full of ID, checkbook, credit cards, photos..EVERYTHING, my backpack full of clothes, sneakers and my husbands wallet in the center section with his social, ID, credit cards and God knows what else we had in our wallets, etc.. It is now valued I figure at at least $1000 dollars worth of property not to mention glass everywhere in the car.


I FRIGGIN FREAKED OUT. My cover last night was "I was at the gym" well, they took my gym clothes in my backpack as I changed into AP seeing clothes after I left the house. OMG. So here I am in jeans and flipflops having to go home to H when that is NOT what I left in. I am also about 20 miles away of where I should be. AP freaked too, felt so bad for me, asked some people around there if saw anything, etc. I hugged him and said I have to go home. In the meantime, my H had called and I didnt know I hit answer. He called back and said "I heard you shuffling around and talking to some guy" - In the end: I played it all off and am safe. I told H I changed into my reg clothes after gym to go into WalMart (he did want groceries before I came home) and told him his car was busted into at WalMart not the rest stop. Ack! He was PISSED of course and his stuff taken not to mention the cameras which I am just besides myself about. I went from an emotional high where I felt so close to AP to pure disaster and my heart sunk when I saw the car. I called the cops out to my house, filed report, H called insurance and started a claim for window and reimbursment of property stolen, cancelled credit cards, got new license this morning but within the 45 min I was involved with AP, they had already charged up $100 on my account, 2 gas stations and $35 at McDonalds. I so want to punch someone in the damn face right now! Bank is working on there end and all-in-all H has nooooooo clue. I talked to AP a few times last night and he just felt awful and today has given me many "I miss you already, You are amazing" Etc... I believe strongly in karma so maybe half of this is mine for my naughty behavior and the other half is the a-hole who did this! But on another note...I so feel I am falling for AP. Usually we see each other Tues & Thurs and I dont know if I can swing it tomorrow and Tuesday seems so far away. :(

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 1:54pm

That is a horrible night and sorry that all your items were stolen. Count yourself lucky, it could of been worse and then imagine having to explain to H why you were in that rest stop. I usually take cabs when meeting with AP. I fear getting a ticket and the location comes up if I'm with AP. I think I cover my tracks more then most....


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 03-29-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 3:08pm

OMG - I always fear that something like that might happen to me when I'm in my OM's territory, which is in a town I would never go to for any reason. See, if something like that happened anywhere "normal", I would immediately call police, not get into glass strewn car and drive elsewhere. The police ask people around the area that it happened if they saw anyone, etc. If you report to police that it happened in a Wal-Mart parking lot, they will go there and ask around. That won't help you get the guy caught. Didn't your H wonder why you didn't call him right from the parking lot? My H really would be suspicious about that - add that to him hearing you talking to some guy accidentally on the phone, and even if he had no suspicions right away, he might start mulling it over or thinking about it.

SO sorry that all happened to you!

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Registered: 06-15-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 4:21pm
Did you give a false report to the police about your whereabouts? I would say you got out lucky with just getting "stuff" stolen. Could have been a lot worse. Your AP can't spring for a cheap motel room or something instead of doing you in the back of a truck like a "lot lizard". Very degrading. Tell him to step up his game! Your safety comes first. Glad you made it out ok.
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Registered: 12-24-2009
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 6:17pm

maybe I missed it but how did you explain why you had NO groceries and went into Walmart without money? I guess next time you know to never leave your purse in your car. Why didnt you take it with you? Also rest stops are HORRIBLE places!!!!!!! You should never travel alone to one, bring expenses items or go to one

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 7:57pm

I'm always afraid something will happen and he only lives 3 freeway exits away. I also have every right to be around that area because my gym is the next exit after him. If we go somewhere it is somewhere we both frequent - so if something does happen it isn't too suspicious.

Rest areas are horrible places. When we travel I hate going in them, especially if I have the kids with me. But I have a tendency to watch to many lifetime movies and over think things.

I know my H would have been upset if I didn't call him right away and drove the car in a glass ridden state. I'm also wondering about the police report, because if you falsify that I'm pretty sure you can get into A LOT of trouble, same things with insurance. Falsifying insurance documents can be pretty punishable.

I hope you and AP can find a better place to meet, I know for a fact I'd cool things down and not frequent that area at all anymore.

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 8:00pm
OMGoodness I didn't even think of the money thing. That would be a tough one to explain. I often times let my bag in the car, but I pull my card out to pay with in the store.
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Registered: 07-28-2010
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 10:46pm

Hmmm, I am worried about security cameras in the Walmart parking lot. Wouldn't the police ask for those, so they could apprehend the thief?

I realize you the panic you must have felt. I just hope this all does not backfire on you.

Best of luck!

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Registered: 12-24-2009
Wed, 08-25-2010 - 11:15pm

that's a great point but I am not sure the police will go through all that over ONE car break in. Maybe if there were

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Registered: 04-23-2007
Thu, 08-26-2010 - 9:16am

Really? A truck stop for 45 minutes? (Shaking head)


At least make him take you to a hotel the next time. You deserve so much more than that.

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Registered: 03-27-2010
Thu, 08-26-2010 - 2:21pm

Ladies!!!!

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