HOLY CRAP - Worst night with AP EVER!
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| Wed, 08-25-2010 - 1:16pm |
So get this....I met AP for our 4th encounter. It was at a rest stop since he drives for a living. I saw this sketchy guy pacing around the area and should have thought twice about it but I didnt. AP got there, gave me huge hug and kiss and we proceeded to his truck where for 45 minutes - heaven existed. He was so sweet and cuddly, asked me to call his name while doing the deed. :) Anyways, he walks me to my car and we discover (actually my husbands car I was driving) someone smashed out the window and STOLE EVERY THING INSIDE! Im talking 2 new $400 Canon digi cameras I had just bought and not even out of the package, my purse with wallet full of ID, checkbook, credit cards, photos..EVERYTHING, my backpack full of clothes, sneakers and my husbands wallet in the center section with his social, ID, credit cards and God knows what else we had in our wallets, etc.. It is now valued I figure at at least $1000 dollars worth of property not to mention glass everywhere in the car.
I FRIGGIN FREAKED OUT. My cover last night was "I was at the gym" well, they took my gym clothes in my backpack as I changed into AP seeing clothes after I left the house. OMG. So here I am in jeans and flipflops having to go home to H when that is NOT what I left in. I am also about 20 miles away of where I should be. AP freaked too, felt so bad for me, asked some people around there if saw anything, etc. I hugged him and said I have to go home. In the meantime, my H had called and I didnt know I hit answer. He called back and said "I heard you shuffling around and talking to some guy" - In the end: I played it all off and am safe. I told H I changed into my reg clothes after gym to go into WalMart (he did want groceries before I came home) and told him his car was busted into at WalMart not the rest stop. Ack! He was PISSED of course and his stuff taken not to mention the cameras which I am just besides myself about. I went from an emotional high where I felt so close to AP to pure disaster and my heart sunk when I saw the car. I called the cops out to my house, filed report, H called insurance and started a claim for window and reimbursment of property stolen, cancelled credit cards, got new license this morning but within the 45 min I was involved with AP, they had already charged up $100 on my account, 2 gas stations and $35 at McDonalds. I so want to punch someone in the damn face right now! Bank is working on there end and all-in-all H has nooooooo clue. I talked to AP a few times last night and he just felt awful and today has given me many "I miss you already, You are amazing" Etc... I believe strongly in karma so maybe half of this is mine for my naughty behavior and the other half is the a-hole who did this! But on another note...I so feel I am falling for AP. Usually we see each other Tues & Thurs and I dont know if I can swing it tomorrow and Tuesday seems so far away. :(

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UPDATE - Gosh, I have a ton of things to say but I will be nice. :) To whoever made the lot lizard comment, lizards take money! AP is not what you would envision as a typical truck driver. My AP is always passing thru with deadlines so we make due with what we can until the time when we can see each other longer and go the hotel route. I am not low class and never imagined myself
well, a lie like that isnt small. Cases get thrown out on technicalities like that. If they can prove that they were not
I hate to say it but I agree. If they deny, deny, deny that they were at the Walmart and their lawyers pull up the tapes, which they can do, then they are going to see that they weren't lying. Not only will you get in trouble for falsifying a police report you will get in trouble for lying on insurance documents - essentially insurance fraud. That will not only come with a hefty fine, possible jail time, you're insurance will be dropped and it will be extremely hard to get insurance again w/o going on a state based program.
I understand we are here for support. And a lot of times everyone gets support, but I think you need to be prepared for this to come crashing down - because with the situation, it very well could. Prepare yourself for that.
Okay, just read this thread. I don't understand the the truck bashing? From what I hear, the big trucks have a decent living area and kind of comfortable. How is it different form the "car dates" that we talk about on the board? Except there is more room in the truck?
And just wondering what you guys would have done if you were in a similar situation? This whole post gave me something to think about. I know I have parked my car at a specific location and went with AP to a bar in another city. So, what would have happened when he dropped me off at my car and it was broken into? I wasn't where I was suppose to be and now I have real problems! I mean is there a right answer that would keep us from having a D-day and be honest also? I dont think there is a answer to that.
I think the original poster did the best she could with what was thrown at her. If we are all in a A here then we shouldn't be throwing stones....Just my opinion.
Hi Cali,
Glad things are looking up a little bit.
I am not throwing stones because of her A
I agree with Scarlet and Never. I honestly don't know what I would have done. I do know my H would have been suspicious strictly because I didn't call him from "Wal-Mart" and chose to drive home in a glass strewn vehicle.
I honestly don't think this is going to cause any problems as far as her location. If she found a body in her car - yes - it would cause problems and she would probably have had to tell the truth about her location! I don't think they're going to look at any security cameras for car thievery.
Cali, keep us updated about this. It was a terrifying experience for sure, and I've often wondered what I would do if I even got a ticket in my OM's town.
BTW I also wondered why Cali was being picked on for encounters in a comfy truck when so many here talk about parks and the back seats of cars! For some reason, Cali, people just picked on you with little reason. I hope it doesn't stop you from coming back and posting more!
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Yeah I agree with Lex here. I have done many things that Im not too proud of, a truck would have been luxurious :)
I think Cali's experience is one I dread! Well Cali's experience is worse than what I could imagine- being robbed etc! But I am always worried about any number of things that could happen that will show H that I wasnt where I was supposed to be. A speeding ticket, a parking ticket, god forbid a crash!!!
Also, Im not going to lose sleep over Cali lying to the police. Ive said 'No Officer I didnt realise I was speeding' too many times to throw that stone into Cali's glass house.
Hope things improve for you Cali xx
Well, after reading the new responses, I again appreciate those of you who are positive in an otherwise negative situation. I just love being judged by strangers in what I thought was a safe place to come and vent/talk about my A. These criminals also have someone filing against them for grand theft of an auto and other people filing against them for theft of their property. If they drop my case from it all because of mismatched location, they will still pay for the other crimes.
Trust me, the location thing has been stuck in my head. I feel horrible and have been over thinking this s*it like crazy. I even thought I would call the officer today who took the report and just be totally honest. Tell him I was meeting a friend who was in town and my husband didnt like that friend. It is NOT illegal to have an affair. I could admit that to the police without my husband knowing, explain why I did it, where my car was parked, provide them all the charges the guys made on my bank account and then move forward. If it comes down to them asking me again about location, I could/would/will just
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