HOLY HOLY MOLY......OMG!!!
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| Thu, 09-25-2003 - 6:44pm |
She is not moving here, wants a divorce, and what is he gonna do about it....
He told his boss, and me, he will NOT go back to his home state, and will stay here and figure out a way to bee able to see his kids....
I am in SHOCK!!!!
I told him not to assume anything, that she is probably trying to play head games, and looking for him to say "No, please don't, I need you, come out here, or I'll come home" and he won't say that to her...
He said to her "Great so how am I gonna spend time with my kids" and she got really irrate and accused him of having a GF out here, and hung up. He didn't call her back, instead called me when he got home, and told me all about it.
When we were done talking tonight, he was just running to the store, and stopping by here to talk about us, but he had a VM when he hung up, and it was her and she said she is calling at a certain time, and that he better answer...apparently every time she calls, he's on the phone w/ me. LOL
We still have not and will not get intamate. I told him that today. I told him I still will not do anything physical w/ him while he's still married. And he said he understood.
I am still in shock, he is going to call me after he talks to the W and fill me in.
NOW.....I could REALLY fall in love with him.

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I will be getting hurt, and I know this, and so does he. FYI, I we didn't resist it this weekend, we did what we shouldn't have done, and I DON'T feel as guilty as I thought I would.
If it ends when his W gets here, then it ends. I am not going to try to break up their M, I am not going to obbsessivly stalk him, or call their house with only the intend to talk to him. My job is on the line, if she thinks, or finds out about this, and my job is worth more than any man.
I have had "bed-buddies", guys who don't want a R or when I didn't want a R w/ them, but yet we did stuff in bed, for fun. Then it was over, and life goes on.
I am not a very emotional person. I have a wall built up for protection, I think, and many a guy has fallen for me, and worn me out with mooshy gooshy stuff, I am more physical, than emotional when it comes to men. That's why I think I fell for my MM because I know it will be going NO WHERE long term.
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I will deal with the next phase any way I have to. At least we had something, even if it ends abruptly...that's what will be in my heart forever.
An XBF called me last night, and wants to "Talk" so I am going to give him a chance and see what happens there. I am not going to base my life around one MM forever.
Please stop fighting though. It's not worth it. Can we just support each other, no matter what the choices we are making? I already got reemed out on the Ending an A board, I just wanted to know what they thought would become of my situation, and they laid it into me. But I'm ok with that, they know what happens when things end.
I'm a good person. Mistakes will be made. I'll still be alive tomorrow. Everyday is the first day of the rest of our lives...and no one can predict the future.
Thanks for those who did give great advice. It's really appreciated.
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