Home Town Girl

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Home Town Girl
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Sat, 07-25-2009 - 8:11am

As I’ve mentioned here a couple of times, because of the inherent advantages, I’ve always preferred single APs.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Sat, 07-25-2009 - 8:21am

You are right on all counts, Becoming. Lies are part of being in affairs and we all do it. How exciting for you to be doing him right up to his wedding and after! I hope he doesn't wuss out on you.

--jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 1:03am

I cant believe he's still getting married. Thats just plain crazy. Does it bother you any?


I was also wondering why

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 7:15am

"He’s been engaged the entire time I’ve been seeing him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 8:20am

"However he is not single and you will not be his number one soon. This would bother me too. I like to be number 1 in a partner's life"

These are A's we're having. How can we expect to be #1 in AP's life when AP is not #1 in ours? Tryin to keep it real.

--jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 12:12pm

JanaMich77,


You're so right!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 12:21pm

Caribu,


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 12:25pm

Blue_Belle,


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2009
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 2:36pm
Wow, this whole thread is the saddest and most disheartening stuff I've ever read on this board. I suppose when A's have nothing to do with love then this is what you get, huh?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 4:04pm
I agree. cannot expect one to put you first when they are not your first or belong to another. I'm a realist as well
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 4:21pm

Yes, you are not a side dish, but realistically you will become one after he gets married (if he does). He will belaying in bed with her at night, he will be gaving regular sex with her (if he is not already). there is more opprotunity for sex when you live with a person. You will become the woman on the side that he will "try" to make time for and only if it is safe or the wifey has not made other plans for him. She will come first... maybe only for the honeymoon period, but she will be first.


am not tying to be mean or anything, but am just looking at the reality of things. what

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