hopeless

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Registered: 05-14-2009
hopeless
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Mon, 01-11-2010 - 11:30am

After five months two weeks, we finally met.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 01-11-2010 - 3:09pm

Hi gal, I hope you don't truly feel hopeless over him, but it's totally okay to feel saddened by the end of a relationship, even one that isn't so good for you.


This article may help: The Week-by-Week Breakup Survival Guide


(((GENTLE HUGS)))) and take care of yourself, gal.

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 01-11-2010 - 3:29pm

Thank you.. The only reason why I feel hopeless is because I gave in to him.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 01-11-2010 - 3:39pm

Hi gal, ahh, I get it now, and I'm sorry that makes you feel bad, but now that you've done it, you can't undo it, so it's best to forgive yourself and try to move forward from here. Maybe you can bookmark what you just said as a reminder to yourself to be strong if he should ever come around again.


((((HUGS)))) again,

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Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 01-11-2010 - 11:13pm

He's blackmailed you and won.

 

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Tue, 01-12-2010 - 8:19am

I do not think so.. We made it clear that we will never see each other again.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Tue, 01-12-2010 - 9:58am

Well, I certainly hope he holds to his end of the bargain, for your sake.


He's a huge scary jerk!

 

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Registered: 06-19-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Tue, 01-12-2010 - 10:05am
i've followed your story as well.this guy is a jerk too.a loser to say the least.a man who doesnt know how to love a woman is not worth a second glance.he will have his day too.
when someone loves another with all sincerity and the other doesnt realize it,it comes back to bite them- something called karma.
this guy is a nut,a loser and a jerk,your h might be better.just look at him with another set of eyes.