Hi gal, I hope you don't truly feel hopeless over him, but it's totally okay to feel saddened by the end of a relationship, even one that isn't so good for you.
Hi gal, ahh, I get it now, and I'm sorry that makes you feel bad, but now that you've done it, you can't undo it, so it's best to forgive yourself and try to move forward from here. Maybe you can bookmark what you just said as a reminder to yourself to be strong if he should ever come around again.
i've followed your story as well.this guy is a jerk too.a loser to say the least.a man who doesnt know how to love a woman is not worth a second glance.he will have his day too. when someone loves another with all sincerity and the other doesnt realize it,it comes back to bite them- something called karma. this guy is a nut,a loser and a jerk,your h might be better.just look at him with another set of eyes.
Hi gal, I hope you don't truly feel hopeless over him, but it's totally okay to feel saddened by the end of a relationship, even one that isn't so good for you.
This article may help: The Week-by-Week Breakup Survival Guide
(((GENTLE HUGS)))) and take care of yourself, gal.
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Thank you.. The only reason why I feel hopeless is because I gave in to him.
Hi gal, ahh, I get it now, and I'm sorry that makes you feel bad, but now that you've done it, you can't undo it, so it's best to forgive yourself and try to move forward from here. Maybe you can bookmark what you just said as a reminder to yourself to be strong if he should ever come around again.
((((HUGS)))) again,
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He's blackmailed you and won.
I do not think so.. We made it clear that we will never see each other again.
Well, I certainly hope he holds to his end of the bargain, for your sake.
He's a huge scary jerk!
when someone loves another with all sincerity and the other doesnt realize it,it comes back to bite them- something called karma.
this guy is a nut,a loser and a jerk,your h might be better.just look at him with another set of eyes.