How can I end this affair?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2007
How can I end this affair?
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Sat, 05-16-2009 - 2:19am

Hi everyone, I always wanted to post in this board but was in denial that I can handle my worries by myself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Sat, 05-16-2009 - 11:09am
There is another board ,EAS,the ending affair board.You will find plenty of support and ideas there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2007
Sun, 05-17-2009 - 7:26pm

" All I want to be is happy and in a healthy relationship", I didn't see that anywhere in your post so I thought I would add it because you must have forgotten it. Your AP is honest about his intent with you. He is telling you, that there is no future for you, and that you are sex and that is it. So, now you get to make the decision. Is that enough for you? I noticed your tag name is sheepishleo.....so maybe you are not very assertive and you think you need someone like him to bring forth excitement. However, there are also sports out there that give the same thing he brings which seems to be a rush.


How do you end it? Well you start by telling yourself........that you are more than someone's mistress. In reality even the mistresses get better treatment than what he is giving you. So, tell yourself that. Tell yourself that this is 2009, and if my husband does not treat me like I am a nobody then you will not either. Tell yourself that....what does not kill you will make you stronger. Most of all...know that the love and respect that YOU have for yourself is worth more than anything. Don't let any man make you feel less about your self.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2007
Tue, 05-19-2009 - 8:14pm

Thank