How can I get him out of my heart???????

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Registered: 08-14-2009
How can I get him out of my heart???????
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Fri, 08-14-2009 - 1:36am

I honestly don't even know where to start my story.

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Registered: 05-21-2009
Fri, 08-14-2009 - 7:04am

I don't know how you can get him out of your heart. I have the same question and would love to know the answer!


I don't think telling him that you love him will make you feel any better. It will most likely just make you feel worse. I did the same thing because I thought that if I got it off my chest and told him that it would make me feel better. After all I had been carrying the feelings around for so long and felt like I needed to tell him in order to move on. Telling him didn't make moving on any easier. I did go NC with him a few months after that. I still think about him on

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Registered: 05-21-2009
Sat, 08-15-2009 - 8:08am
Does anyone else have any help for her?
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Registered: 08-15-2009
Sat, 08-15-2009 - 9:41pm

Hi Losin,


I don't have the magic pill cause if I did, I probably would've eaten them all by now!

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Registered: 07-28-2007
Sat, 08-15-2009 - 10:05pm

gosh i wish we all knew bc i would do it

kathy
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Registered: 08-14-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 4:05pm

We broke time, over and over again, because I always knew he wouldn't love me the way i deserved to be loved.

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Registered: 05-21-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 5:54pm
I know how you feel. You're secure in the relationship that you do have and are unsure that the ex could give that to you. We have to ask ourselves what is more important though, security or the thrill and excitement.