How could he?

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Registered: 08-03-2008
How could he?
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Mon, 01-19-2009 - 10:39pm

Hi all,

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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 10:07pm
Thanks myra, so much of what you say makes sense and is right, I guess sadly i never really thought that there could or would be another man who loved me let alone someone who put me first in any way.
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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 10:18pm

Thank you!

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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 10:23pm

Thanks again Justice!

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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: iluv2love
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 10:50pm

It's apparent,


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Registered: 01-16-2009
In reply to: iluv2love
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 11:17pm

I think that I see things a little differently than Clarity does in this area.

Do you deserve good things in life? I say ABSOLUTELY! I truly believe that SOMETIMES good people make bad choices, and entering into an A w/ a MM is undoubtedly a bad choice (unfortunately I have made the very same bad choice). But I think that our lives are based more on your general over all behavior, as apposed to single acts, be they acts of kindness, or bad judgment calls. I think that you are a good person, if not you would not have been grappling w/ the issue of guilt, or are you deserving of good things.

Keep thinking positive thoughts, and have positive conversation w/ yourself, and I believe that you will start to develop a different view of yourself. Good luck Sugar.

Justice

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Registered: 01-22-2009
In reply to: iluv2love
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 7:51am
The perils of an A. I would write down how I feel in a note and read it. Then think about and do it one or two more times..... and then if it is possible deliver it. Understand you may not get a reaction - but you should be able to have your feelings conveyed....... and perhaps closure
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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 10:46pm
Thanks clarity!
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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 10:48pm
Thanks Justice!
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Registered: 08-03-2008
In reply to: iluv2love
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 10:54pm

Hi Mr. Cocky, Thanks for your advice.

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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: iluv2love
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 12:20am

LOL...at your "long emails" and how you write everything.