how did your Valentine weekend go ?
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| Sun, 02-15-2004 - 2:28am |
I kept having silly thoughts on Friday since I didn't get a call and got a little emotional ( but had to hide it from my mom). Then he called this afternoon while I was out in the mall and the bad connection made it difficult to talk again. I had to cut him off since my mom was waiting and didn't want her to get suspicious. May sound silly but it is amazing what one call can do to my emotions. I know, now, that he is still thinking about me on this V day !! I miss him terribly but then try telling myself not to read too much into one day. One thing for sure is the culture we live in put too much pressure for lovers on this day. We should be able to exchange our love daily and live like 2/14 daily. That maybe it is the only way to make us live happier and the relationship last longer.
Good luck to you all !! Please share your V day stories with the board.

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Well, I was half expecting a gift from DH (atleast flowers), but he did not even know it was Val-day!!! So gave him a kiss and reminded him. I got him no gift (as we are saving for some summer projects), but had planned a fun evening. Had baked some of his favorite goodies, sent him a Valentines on his cell, and in his email at work.
And MM, sent the most elegant online card with a very beautiful unique flower, with the most tender of touches. What a suprise! How could I even think he would not remember. It is the second Valentines and he still remembers. I had made one for him (on the PC), that I didn't know if I SHOULD send, but have now, because he really made me feel special, and I want him to feel the same.
No comparison, just facts please. I can not tell you the last time DH remembered (sad).
And the rest of you, tell tell....
Mitzy
PS Congrats on the flowers, to you and the rest of the wonderful queens who received them!
jen
We were together last night, and were able to spend the night together for the first time. How I loved waking up next to him!
He asked that I wear thigh high stockings-I complied. We met, he felt my legs under the table, we had a couple drinks, and were off! He found 2 cards on the windshield of his car. Unfortunately, I had to bring them back with me. We didn't want to risk him taking them home. I gave him a little book of quotes from his favorite author, which he can keep. A rose was waiting for me.He couldn't find a card that said what he wanted. He told me instead. We made love like a couple of high school kids in the back seat of a car-we're 57, so youngsters, there's hope!!!, talked, laughed, ate the snacks I brought. He got a massage, and then we fell asleep together. This morning we snuggled, spooned, made love, took a shower, had a bit of breakfast. My sweetheart then had to make the long drive home.
I don't know when I'll see him again. It's possible to be deliriously happy, and desparately miserable at the same time.
Legs
Edited 2/15/2004 1:48:09 PM ET by longlegs2
Lucky
What I'd like to know, is what's wrong with your marriages that you feel you need to mess around with someone else? Or is it just the fantasy of being young again with your HS friend?
What did your H do for Valentine's day?
Just curious.
I know how you feel about being happy and miserable at same time. You and I are in the same boat. I am married and my MM is 500 miles away and we spent the night together back in November, in which we bonded emotionally very much...it was awesome.
My MM called me Friday and said he loves and misses me and wants to see me...and that he will wait for me to move back to his town...even if he grows old. He even asked me to make love to him in mind that night and he would make love to me in his mind too *sigh*. I received his card on Saturday..and forgive me but I must write how the card read to see what you guys think:
Once my life was empty,
and so was my heart.
But now you've filled both.
I know we'll never part.
How wonderful to know we've found the way!
To my love, Happy Valentines Day.
Then he wrote "Missing you very much", Love (his name)
I will call him tomorrow to ask if he really means this..am i nuts? Reading his card made me wonder if he maybe got my card mixed up with his w. I love him very much and we have discussed a future together yet I am getting nervous. He tempts me to just pack up and go to him *sigh* ~Cheetah~
Edited 2/16/2004 9:47:28 AM ET by opal_fire
Well, my weekend wasn't as great as I had hoped.
But we are going to see each other tomorrow hopefully for our afternoon rendezvous.
So that will definitely make up for the lack of sex on the weekend!! Take care everyone,
Dusty
Oh and Opal, ignore Big Red, she is obviously in the wrong place if she is going to point fingers, or ask rude pointed questions, she does not belong here. I hate to be mean, but this is the last place any of us want to be attacked or accused. We come here for comfort and everyone will find that from the majority of us let’s just hope the naysayers get the hint and leave.
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