how did your Valentine weekend go ?
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| Sun, 02-15-2004 - 2:28am |
I kept having silly thoughts on Friday since I didn't get a call and got a little emotional ( but had to hide it from my mom). Then he called this afternoon while I was out in the mall and the bad connection made it difficult to talk again. I had to cut him off since my mom was waiting and didn't want her to get suspicious. May sound silly but it is amazing what one call can do to my emotions. I know, now, that he is still thinking about me on this V day !! I miss him terribly but then try telling myself not to read too much into one day. One thing for sure is the culture we live in put too much pressure for lovers on this day. We should be able to exchange our love daily and live like 2/14 daily. That maybe it is the only way to make us live happier and the relationship last longer.
Good luck to you all !! Please share your V day stories with the board.

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Since this is an affair SUPPORT board, I'm surprised at your question. But I will attempt to answer.
Like many others here, both of our marriages are ok, and long-term. Mine has no passion in it, and his is having troubles right now, also along with no passion.
I am not "messing around". I fell in love, I got hit by a ton of bricks, lightning struck. We realized that we had loved each other for many years, but it wasn't meant to be until now. We both acknowledge that we are glad we are NOT young. This is way better than it would have been years ago.
The only thing that is "young" is the passion and love we feel for each other. We have spent MUCH more time talking to each other and enjoying each other's company, than we have spent naked together. We connect intellectually, emotionally, and, yes, sexually. I don't even consider this an affair; Ijust don't have another name for it.
On Valentine's day, H was enjoying being in the house by himself. We had gone to dinner the night before, and exchanged cards in the morning.
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CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
Have a great evening everybody!
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