How do I handle this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
How do I handle this?
1
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 11:46am
Everyone in my life thinks that I'm no longer with MM. There was a time we were a real couple. Our relationship is a "BIG" secret with my friends, co-workers, and mostly my family.

Well, MM just shows up at my job!!!. I wanted to crawl under my desk. My heart started racing, I didn't know what to say. My co-workers were staring, and I just froze. Some of my co-workers know what I went through with him, during our break-up last year. They don't know we are back together.

Now, he is upset. Said I hurt his feelings, and thinks that I'm fooling around with someone at work. He left, only stayed a few minutes. Everybody surrounded me, wanted to know what he was doing here? Then he calls from another floor, and wants to know whats wrong. I say nothing.......then he gets all emotional, says his feeling are hurt, he's mad, and hangs up in my face.

What do I do? Do, I tell him the situation? Do, I continue to say it's nothing? I'm totally freaking what do I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 2:51pm
I emailed you!!