How do I know if MM has feelings?
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| Sat, 05-01-2010 - 2:03pm |
I'm married and recently had a relationship with a former co-worker become physical. (My first time cheating and only my second sexual partner.)We only had oral sex, because I didn't feel comfortable doing more. BUT, we had an emotional affair for 1.5 years before last week - a lot of sex talk, conversations about our kids, families, he even called my husband once to save me because he'd caught me emailing again (I at one point told my husband about sex emails I'd had with the MM).
Recently, he's asked me if my husband and I plan on having more kids... Told me he wishes his W didn't work, like me... But he hasn't made another appt. for sex and I can't wait to do it again... He has said that he really can't wait to see me again, though. I don't know what to think. We've had a history for over a year, and it wasn't until last week that the sex happened. I thought that would kick it into high gear - it was REALLY good for us both. But all he does is say how much he wants to see me again but at least this past week it didn't happen.
Am I just overreacting because of the sex fog?? I mean, he had a REALLY busy week at work and he wasn't lying b/c I talked to other people at work... At the same time, he waited for me for 1.5 years, always knowing that it wouldn't be sex all the way! And any time we stopped talking, it was always him coming after me again.
I've had feelings for him since I first saw him - he thinks it's just about sex for me. It's not. I really want him. How do I find out if he has feelings for me?

As for the sex fog thing - I can definitely identify with feeling so good in that area (no pun intended) that I wanted an immediate repeat but guys aren't always as fogged up as we are, and even seem to pull away a bit (at least some of them do). Give him time, see what happens.
By the way, this line made me laugh:
"But he hasn't made another appt. for sex and I can't wait to do it again..."
APPOINTMENT?? LOL that just struck my funny bone. :-)
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