How do I say good bye?

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Registered: 08-27-2006
How do I say good bye?
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Thu, 05-13-2010 - 4:53pm
I have been married for 14yrs.I have an AP for 6yrs. My AP has been married for 5yrs.In the beginning it was soooo much fun and we both were 100% into it.As time went on the feelings came and everything changed. I'm the one calling just to hear his voice,texting him to just no he is there.doing everything to want to believe he wants to still be in my life.I say I love u but he stopped saying it and says you no my feelings, they have never changed.I can tell he is distant and not really into the
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Registered: 04-27-2010
Thu, 05-13-2010 - 9:51pm

I went over to EAS to get the link for you and noticed you already posted there :) Those ladies can help you...go read there as well, and you'll have your answers. It is very hard to say "good-bye", but those ladies are proof it can be done.


Best wishes to you...




Edited 5/14/2010 8:59 am ET by hiskimber
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Registered: 04-27-2010
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 3:41am

Why do we always have to say goodbye, when we hate those words so much?


Why can't we just

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 8:04am
I think, am_pm, things can't usually just "fade away" because that doesn't work. You could stop calling him but if he doesn't know it's "over" he'll eventually contact you and then what? Eventually, you have to say goodbye, make it "official" and move forward, one day at a time. First you have to decide what you really want. If daisygal is at EAS, then she's already decided.

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