How do u move on, being it could ruin u

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Registered: 10-26-2008
How do u move on, being it could ruin u
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Thu, 07-09-2009 - 4:18pm
Me and "robbie" when we first met he was a player and talked to other girls and always had me on the back-burner which at the time i understood being i was in a relationship with my sons dad, he saw this as i was cheating on my Bd for him so it probably wasnt going anywhere , he blew me off several times and said he wasnt sure if he loved me or not ( because we fell in love despite me being with Bd and being prego with bds 2nd kid!!) well me and him stopped contact for days , it was hard on me
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Registered: 06-18-2009
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 7:25pm

In my book. "Honesty" is still the best policy. You're playing with fire and I hope no one gets burned. We don't really know what someone is capable of until it's too late. Betrayal can sometimes turn deadly in an instant if a D-day should ensue. If you're heart is with "robbie", then let BD go so he can be with someone who will love him for who he is.

Be careful that you're not thinking the grass is greener on the other side though, cause usually by the time you get there it probably isn't. You also need to examine why you think it's acceptable to cheat on someone you had a commitment with. Until you understand why, you'll be bound to repeat these same actions no matter who you end up with.

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