How do you deal with trips w spouse
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|Mon, 06-16-2014 - 2:18pm|
Hi. Here's the background. I have been in my A for almost 4 yrs now. We dated a little when we were younger (kids). A mutual friend evidently broke us up. AP thought I was seeing mutual friend and I thought he got bored and walked. It appears AP spoke to my mom sporadically and knew all about my life until mom moved. Then he started looking for me. I never use my maiden name so it took him a while to find me but he did 4 yrs ago. We both say the L word...and are both jealous of the other's spouse and family to some extent. I've been married for 20 yrs and AP for 24 yrs. We both have young children.
My DH has planned an anniversary trip for us for a week for our 20th anniversary. My question is how do you tell your AP that you're going on an anniversary trip??? Stupid question but it is what it is!