How do you even begin to find someone?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2008
How do you even begin to find someone?
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Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:01pm
I've been w/ W for 7yrs.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-19-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:20pm
We are not here to help people to cheat on their spouse. If you're not happy in your M then make steps to see if you can resolve it otherwise dissolve it. No woman or potential OW is going to be flattered that you just want to make her an OW while you stay in an unfulfilling M.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:27pm
Your post is sleazy and disgusting.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:42pm

This board is for people already in an A, where they can come to get support. We never encourage anyone to have an affair. While we may have made mistakes in our lives A's are hurtful to all in them. Your flippancy about a serious subject is insutling. Please do not come here again.







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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:52pm
so because you're already in one, you're much less sleazy than the people who are considering taking the leap.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:58pm

You are SOLICITING - what do you not get??

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 3:59pm

No you misunderstand me so let me be clear. I am saying that this is not a place to tell you how to have an A nor to solicit a woman to have sex with.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 4:01pm

OK OK - before we deteriorate to more name calling here....


You are on a support board for people who are either IN an EMA - or considering one.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 4:56pm
LMAO! Sorry I am all the way in Maryland. I am really sorry to hear about your situation, but one thing you said that I didn't understand. You said you caught her before. What do you mean? You caught her cheating?
Aside from that, a sexless marriage is a terrible thing. Does she (your wife) take care of you in other ways? If sex is painful for her, that only leaves about.... a million other things that you can do. I really don't know what else to say because your post was a little vague.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 5:31pm
Wow I guess I should have read the other post on here to this guy before I responded. I have always felt a loving, caring, and genuine feeling of goodness from the people on here. I didn't take his post offensively. I just saw another person who was clueless about what to do in a troubled marriage. I think that the first few post were a little hard on him, but Tiger you put it much better.