I did and do sometimes feel jealous, especially when I think about all the time she can spend with him but I too witnessed them in public and neither said a word to each other although they spoke to everyone else.
i'm not jealous and certainly not hateful towards his W. i'm sometimes jealous when they vacation but not of her specifically - just the opportunity. i see how well he treats her in person and wonder if she appreciates it. i suspect the answer is "no" or i wouldn't be in this place. but maybe i'm wrong.
i mostly feel sorry for her that she is overlooking this awesome man. and he feels the same about my DH for overlooking me.
I am jealous and hate her.I really do.But what makes me better and keeps sane is that they are not doing anything together as a family or more so as a couple.Its not right for his little kids ,i have nothing against them but i have to keep myself from going nuts. The A is not making his M better,he is not a cake-eater.He is putting a lot of energy into this A,so i guess,its her who would be jealous if she knew!
I am SW and boy does it get tough?It gets lonely but i cant leave him.He is mine, just so frustrating at times...
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Hi Transition:
I did.
YES.
I did and do sometimes feel jealous, especially when I think about all the time she can spend with him but I too witnessed them in public and neither said a word to each other although they spoke to everyone else.
Edited 7/26/2009 10:39 pm ET by goblinqueen79
i'm not jealous and certainly not hateful towards his W. i'm sometimes jealous when they vacation but not of her specifically - just the opportunity. i see how well he treats her in person and wonder if she appreciates it. i suspect the answer is "no" or i wouldn't be in this place. but maybe i'm wrong.
i mostly feel sorry for her that she is overlooking this awesome man. and he feels the same about my DH for overlooking me.
Mrs.
For me it was more frustration than jealousy.
I am jealous and hate her.I really do.But what makes me better and keeps sane is that they are not doing anything together as a family or more so as a couple.Its not right for his little kids ,i have nothing against them but i have to keep myself from going nuts.
The A is not making his M better,he is not a cake-eater.He is putting a lot of energy into this A,so i guess,its her who would be jealous if she knew!
I am SW and boy does it get tough?It gets lonely but i cant leave him.He is mine, just so frustrating at times...
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