How do you feel about the W?

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Registered: 07-09-2008
How do you feel about the W?
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Thu, 04-02-2009 - 9:58pm

I suppose

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2007
Thu, 04-02-2009 - 10:25pm

Hi Transition:


I did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 04-02-2009 - 10:51pm

YES.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-07-2009
Thu, 04-02-2009 - 11:14pm
I can relate to what you are saying.
maystone
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Registered: 01-08-2009
Thu, 04-02-2009 - 11:22pm

I did and do sometimes feel jealous, especially when I think about all the time she can spend with him but I too witnessed them in public and neither said a word to each other although they spoke to everyone else.

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Registered: 12-30-2008
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:25am
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Edited 7/26/2009 10:39 pm ET by goblinqueen79
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Registered: 08-08-2005
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 11:12am

i'm not jealous and certainly not hateful towards his W. i'm sometimes jealous when they vacation but not of her specifically - just the opportunity. i see how well he treats her in person and wonder if she appreciates it. i suspect the answer is "no" or i wouldn't be in this place. but maybe i'm wrong.

i mostly feel sorry for her that she is overlooking this awesome man. and he feels the same about my DH for overlooking me.

Mrs.

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Registered: 02-26-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 1:28pm
I totally relate to how you are feeling.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-07-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 7:39pm
Jen... so far for me it has been a bit up and down esp. the last couple months, but the last
maystone
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 9:29pm

For me it was more frustration than jealousy.

 

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Sat, 04-04-2009 - 10:33am

I am jealous and hate her.I really do.But what makes me better and keeps sane is that they are not doing anything together as a family or more so as a couple.Its not right for his little kids ,i have nothing against them but i have to keep myself from going nuts.
The A is not making his M better,he is not a cake-eater.He is putting a lot of energy into this A,so i guess,its her who would be jealous if she knew!

I am SW and boy does it get tough?It gets lonely but i cant leave him.He is mine, just so frustrating at times...

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