How do you get over an affair?
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How do you get over an affair?
| Tue, 10-14-2003 - 2:13pm |
I recently ended a two year affair to work on things with my husband. The problem is, I'm still in love with the other man. He's trying to move on, he may even be dating someone new which is devastating to me. I have always harbored the notion that my lover and I would get to have a real relationship someday, but that notion was dashed when he told me we needed to stop all dialogue and move on with our lives. I love my husband, but it's almost a completely celibate relationship, and I'm not sure if it will sustain me for the rest of my life, but for the sake of our children I will try. Has anyone else been in such a confusing place? How can I let this man go and give myself to my husband?

in the past...with other relationships..i have to have closure. if you really want to get on with your life then you have to end all communication with om. and try your best to improve your relationship with dh.