How do you handle this?
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How do you handle this?
| Tue, 02-24-2004 - 4:08pm |
I'm not sure how to explain this. My H and I have a very rocky marriage. Well i've been seeing OM for a couple years now, but just recently we became physically intimate. I mean within last 6 mo. We have a wonderful time together and blah blah blah...
Here the question...I know OM wants me to leave H. He's said on several occasions he would help me do anything I needed to leave H. However, as much as I love OM, I feel a responsibility toward H. Is there a way to explain this to OM? I mean he's been patient. And I understand his frustration. He wants to be with me, but I've tried to explain, and he isn't pushy, but I know that it hurts him. Every time we say goodbye to one another, he almost cries...every time. He gets all choked up, and I hate to see him in pain, but like I said I feel responsible for H.
How would you handle this? I know someone has to have felt this before...

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Good luck and keep the love strong. Follow your heart - you'll know what to do....you might already know!
((HUGS))
At this point, I can't even stand for H to touch me. But well as is everyone's situation it's so complicated. Damn feelings, they always get in the way LOL!