how do you handle a stalker wife?
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how do you handle a stalker wife?
| Sun, 09-13-2009 - 11:43am |
i have lurked here for a long time, but don't think i've ever posted. i'm divorced and have been in a R with a MM for a couple of years. i knew the W before the A, and we were friendly acquaintances. she recognized early on that her H

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Hmmm I don't think there is anything you can do, per se, other than getting a restraining order.
he is worried about getting caught to a degree. that is why we don't have a regular time that we meet at my place. however, we cannot afford a hotel room to spend an hour or two together a
she has every right to look for her husband even if it means driving past your house or knocking on your door. There is nothing creepy with that. Meet somewhere else if you are concerned or stop seeing each other if you are worried.
A judge will laugh at you if you even try and get a restraining order. She isnt violent and you are sleeping with her husband.
One way to get her to stop - stop sleeping with her husband they would work.
Jen
Well said Jessie!!!!
I agree with the other posters, if you want her to stop driving by your house, you have to give her a reason to stop. There are only two reasons that I can think of:
1. Stop seeing her husband.
2. have your AP (her husband) tell her that their marriage is over and they both have to move on with their lives.
Your AP is playing both of you, it's unfair and uncalled for.
Sorry, but just wanted to point out...
Isn't ALL of our AP's playing us and having their cake and eating it too?
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