How do you know when to call it quits?
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How do you know when to call it quits?
| Wed, 10-14-2009 - 6:17pm |
Hello, I have been seeing AP for going on 3yrs now and i've fallen deeply in love with him. He has said "I love you",but I dont know if he actually meant that he is in love with me.

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when the negative feelings outweigh the positive.
Hi Deandra,
I've been following your story and I'm sorry you feel trapped in your marriage. I'm really going through a situation right now with H and AP but I just wanted to respond. My H and I seperated about 3 months ago. So I know the trapped feeling you are talking about.
If you H has been abusive, I know you are ready to leave. Even though your mom isnt supportive as you say, would she let you stay with her just so you can get away from the abuse? I know you said your H wont give a divorce but he cant stop you from leaving.
If AP wasnt around would you still want to leave your M? We are here to support you. I know I've definitely gotten support from this board and dont know what I would do without it. Hang in there, everything will work itself out. That's what I have to tell myself everyday. I think I'm starting to believe that.
Hugs
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