How do you sort it out?

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Registered: 11-17-2008
How do you sort it out?
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Sun, 09-13-2009 - 10:09am

Hello all,


I have not posted here much but I read a lot and have gained a lot of knowledge and support here.

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Registered: 09-11-2009
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 1:32pm
I'm new here and have a post called please please help me. I wanted to respond to your post because it is quite similar to mine. My H and I have been married 26 years and have three children. My AP is married 34 years with three grown children and three grandchildren. Our relationship is more phone conversations though I have gone to his state 4 times now and we've been together then (not ML). We worked because we both would never leave our SO, even though we're not in love with them.
I have a big time problem being 'jealous' of his marriage for some ridiculous reason. She is a weak woman who literally can't do anything without him due to wacky mind fears let alone all her other spineless things she can't do or does. Anyway, we love talking to each other for long periods of time on the phone. We talk about everything and anything and we know each other inside and out. There are times where, when he has to go with her somewhere because of her fears, I get so jealous! It's SO stupid because heck, he never gets jealous of mine! It's caused some fights with us, and other times he thinks it's cute. He keeps telling me "Just focus on us and our time!" I sure try! Sometimes I do just fine, but other times I can't help it!
So I totally understand what you're going through!
Sorry so long!
Dana
Sorry so long!
Dana