How does your long-distance A work?

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Registered: 08-30-2008
How does your long-distance A work?
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Sat, 01-24-2009 - 6:15pm

I was wondering how people in long-distance affairs handle things.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 01-26-2009 - 4:19pm

Hi Flying -


Thanks for the smiles - yeah those airfares stink!!

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Mon, 01-26-2009 - 4:49pm

Tiger,


BUT...the good news is that hotel rates are incredibly low.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 1:33pm

Hi Tgr,


Thanks for the explanation.

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Registered: 01-30-2009
Wed, 02-04-2009 - 3:36pm

I am right there with you all. In a LDR and I am M w/kids and he is S (dating though). The issue is that I have $$ and he does not but i have a H to explain my expenses to. Also, he can't really come to me as how would I explain where I'm going to the H!

I travel a lot for work though and am just starting this lDR so we will see how that goes and if I can convince him to travel with me. All he would have to do is pay for a plane ticket, all other expenses would be taken care of through my work travels.

I hate having a LDR as I too miss him dearly daily. He's not much of an email person so we only have phone time and it usually is during the day. I like our evening conversations if you know what I mean - they are much more fun but not very often :(

We are currently planning a trip in the next couple months so I'm extremely excited to see where that ends up! We are talking Vegas or Mexico or something!

I am horrible person as I'm also being tempted by a local A with a MM. Nothing serious has happened yet, but he told me it will one day and is making steps to make it happen. This A would be just a physical A and not emotional, I can tell already. The first AP is very very emotional to both of us. I dream daily about a life with him. Where with AP2, if it ever happens, would just be for the sex.

My sex life with my H is completely lacking.

That's my story!

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Registered: 06-06-2006
Wed, 02-11-2009 - 8:20am

Hello, frequent lurker, first time poster here.. My A is finished now but he was English (S, 45, no children) and i am German (bf of 12 years, 38, no children), my

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Registered: 02-11-2009
Wed, 02-11-2009 - 6:27pm

I haven't posted in quite awhile but the LDA always draws my attention.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 02-11-2009 - 10:25pm
Thank you all for continuing to share your stories.

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