How to help with cold feet/ being nervou

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Mon, 01-25-2010 - 12:35pm
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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 2:12pm

I really know how you feel!


My AP keeps going hot and cold on me!

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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 8:31pm
Confuzed, I really know what you are going thru.
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Thu, 01-28-2010 - 10:56am

I think its a Funny thing, almost....that we haven't made out yet.

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Thu, 01-28-2010 - 1:57pm
Well, so you've set some ground rules...why not set a few more, like that you don't want to be in this relationship if he keeps advancing and then retreating, sending mixed signals. He's either in or he's out. It just has all the makings of a drama-filled, roller coaster ride the way it looks right now. I am in a deeply satisfying EMA w/a single guy who never backs off and is always there for me...now, granted, the fact that he is single makes a huge difference (although I know some single guys also do what your MM is doing). But the way I see it, I would not want to be in a relationship where the guy is so wishy washy--that would not be worth it to me.
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Fri, 01-29-2010 - 7:32am

It may seem at first glance that our MM are being wishy-washy, but in my

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Fri, 01-29-2010 - 7:41am

That is so for sure....my insides are bursting with wanting to be able to talk and NOT be able to.


You are exactly right though!

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Mon, 02-01-2010 - 10:11am

It has been a very long week without him here.

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Fri, 02-05-2010 - 12:33pm

So its official...we have called off this affair before we even had a chance to make a go of it.

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Fri, 02-05-2010 - 5:33pm

>But the way I see it, I would not want to be in a relationship where the guy is so wishy washy--that would not be worth it to me.


I agree.

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Sat, 02-06-2010 - 3:01am

wow! 10 years of flirting and he is the major owner of the company that you work at? yikes! and you both have families? could it get any stickier? ;)


wow! i bet the SEX is AMAzinig... and that is why we get ourselves into these sort of situations isn't it? because the freakin' physical attraction is soooo good, and it certainly isn't happening

when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal

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