How honest is your AP with you?
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How honest is your AP with you?
| Mon, 02-16-2009 - 7:32pm |
I don't see a lot of the old names here so I don't know all of your stories and I haven't been here in a while.
I've read several posts here lately about close friendships, confiding in each other, excuses, AP'S being busy, finding out they are lying, not trusting, and all the stories that go along with them.

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How honest do you think your AP is with you?
I have been in A on again/off again for 12 years.
How honest do you think your AP is with you?
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Edited 7/26/2009 10:37 pm ET by goblinqueen79
How honest do you think your AP is with you?
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
How honest do you think your AP is with you?
He is always honest with me and me with him.
Does he/she tell you about his/her marriage or how good/bad it is? Or why either of you are in this?
We discuss our marriages all the time. We started out as FWB, he fell in love with me, then me with him.
Do you tell each other secrets and are confidants to one another?
Yes, we share secrets, he is my greatest confidant, I can talk to him about anything.
Do you only hear what you want or what he/her wants you to hear?
No, in fact he jokes sometimes that I am the realistic one in this relationship. He thinks we just need to be together, I have to analyze everything and make him think.
Do you really trust him/her? Does it make a difference about your feelings?
Yes I trust him, sounds ironic when you think that we are in an A, but I really do trust him.
Are you in love with them? Do you share your feelings with each other?
We are in love, we share our feelings all the time.
Could you ever see yourself with them solely?
Yes, we are working on that.
How honest do you think your AP is with you?
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