How to know if he's interested
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| Sat, 01-31-2004 - 5:45am |
For new years I was going to an opera, and it was also televised. I know that Jan is kind of a fan, but i was blown away when i asked what they did for new years and he watched the 2 hr concert with his GF. He seemed quite please to tell me that though.
We often talk about movies and have so much in common its hillarious. I think i pick up on his vibes, but don't know how to push it. We also go to the same club sometimes, but we have NEVER seen eachother there. I was thinking thats the best place to get down to the real business. Once we talked about smoking and he doesn't smoke, but i said i always look for a cute guy and ask him for a cigarette, and he said, i should carry cigarettes, then with me when i go out. ( maybe joking though so he could meet ladies in general) I dpn't know.
I will have a 2 week break and was thinking about sending him an email during htat time. Just a general one. He's never given me his email addres, but its the same for the while company,i think if he bites then maybe we can see whats going on... any ideas

i said, well, you used to , and its been a while so we should go.
he said, what would your husband say
i said, i'.m an adult, make my own choices, he won't mind.. ( and truth ladies, he won't he trusts me)
he said, well give me you email
i said, nope, here put your number in my phone
( so he did) and later i put mine in his phone
he said his gf is a bit suspicious, cause i brought some videos ( opera) ones for him to see a few months ago.
but he said he just needs a few days notice then we'll go.. i told him i can't wait to get him drunk.. he said he hardly drinks, but its in his blood, anyway, then i said i am a silly drunk, very talkative, he said he could imagine, then he had to go.
I think thats all clear now. I will see him two times next week, so won't call or message, but the end of the month, watch out..
thanks for advice
abi