How long did you know him

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How long did you know him
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Thu, 09-11-2003 - 1:52am
How long did each of you know your MM/OM before you made love the first one? Do you wish you waited longer before being intimate?

Have a great day.....

Belle

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Registered: 09-04-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 7:32am
I new mm for about 3 years, we work together. But we started really hanging out about a year ago at work. And after about a month of teasing each other to no end I couldn't take it anymore & I grabbed him and kissed him. It was all over after that. We've been stuck to each other like glue ever since. I don't regret what I did for a minute. He's my soulmate and who can regret that? I tell him it's his fault even though I'm the one who grabbed him, because he was always touching me and sitting as close to me as he could. He'd get a couple of inches from my face and look at me with those eyes and my heart would race. We both did try and behave, him a little more then me, but once I kissed him, we couldn't stop. He told me he was trying so hard not to do anything. I asked him why then would you get so close to me all the time? He said he just couldn't stay away from me. He's never cheated with anyone else until now. He's been with his w for about 14 years!
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Registered: 02-12-2002
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 7:45am
I knew him for several years - we even used to have desks next to each other before seeing each other, but nothing ever happened, no spark, no interest at all (though he admits he used to stare at me, and I thought he was cute - but there were good reasons for us not connecting before we did). After we started seeing each other, though, it was a few months before anything you'd call "intimate," and a few more months before "everything." It was just like a really good dating relationship should be. :)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 12:08pm
belle -- i've known MM and his W for over 8 years and he and I have been involved for 3+ years. started flirting a little, then alot. moved onto discussions about why neither of us was having sex in our primary Rs. one night i was at home, BF was out with his guy friends after playing golf and MM called me and asked me to come see him. i literally ran out of the house and met him and the rest is history. and how my world has changed since that night.

gurl

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 1:04pm
I have been friends with OM for about 2 years. I always knew he admired me and I enjoyed the flattery. I started flirting back and it was fun but then things started get really intense and I thought of him often. We have a lot of friends in a certain circle and one night while we were out he grabbed my hand under the table and held on for what seemed like hours after most of the table went home, he walked me to my car and we kissed for what seemed like forever. We fooled around in our cars for a few months but it took 4 months until we made love. I enjoy every minute that were together.

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IDK

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Registered: 04-24-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 1:32pm
I knew him when I was younger and then he came back into town 2yrs ago. He was (and is) the best friend of my BF. I guess I always knew he was attracted to me. He moved in with us temperarily and that is when it became very apparent. We started the affair almost a year after he came back into town and we slept together about 1/2yr later.
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Registered: 05-29-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:03pm
3 years of more and more and more intense flirting--I had imagined making love with him so many times, that by the time we finally did it, it was the most natural thing in the world for me!
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Registered: 05-24-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:36pm
We've known each other not quite 2 years. And we've been in our affair for about 4 months, now. And we've yet to have IC. We do everything but that, really, but no IC. And while sometimes it's a little frustrating, because I do really want to share that with him, I find now that I like the pace we're progressing at. We're spending a LOT of time getting to know each other both physically and non-physically. We're spending a lot of time appreciating each step along the way of our sexual journey with each other, rather than rushing through. And OM also has some worries that IC will lead to a greater chance of discovery, unless we use a condom, and I don't want to do that because of sensitivities I have towards them.

So, I guess the short answer is...2 years or 4 months, depending on what you're counting by, and still waiting!!

Lucky

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Registered: 08-24-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 6:14pm
Hmmmm, this is a hard one. Forty years?

Or should I say we made love the third time we were together, just this summer, after making contact again.

It was instant connection after not having seen each other for 38 of those 40 years.

We're in love, and in an impossible situation.

Legs

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Registered: 07-27-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 11:30pm
Knew MM for 2 years. There was an attraction between us that built up and became more obvious over time. He was my my superior at work and I knew he would never make a pass at me (even though I now know he wanted to). I ended up (surprisingly) snagging a much better job in my field, and before I left I took a risk and basically told him that I had been attracted to him all along. After this he asked me to lunch a few times. The third lunch date we ended up in a hotel room - with the best mind blowing sex of my life! Sometimes I wish I could go back to those first "dates" - the sexual tension between us was so powerful and exciting. God it was fun. I'm missing him now!!!

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 12:20am
Hi Belle,

MM & I knew each other for some years before our first "encounter". And although we both wished we would have realised the attraction long before we did, it happened at the right time for us.

What you about you, Belle?

Have a good Friday!

Meow

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