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| Sat, 05-08-2004 - 5:18pm |
How long did you know you MM/OM before you were sexually intimate?
- There has been no sexual intimacy yet
- First few weeks
- 1-3 months
- 4-6 months
- Almost a year
- More than a year
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Any way, thank you all for your insights, and messages here.
I have been with MM for almost four months now, we have not been intimate yet (intercourse). MM has said all along that we will take things slow, and he did not want to push me into anything unless or until I'm ready. I'm SO ready to make love with MM, I swear when the time comes, I think I could hurt him! But now that he seems ready to move forward, and I'm ready to move forward, I'm so fearful our intimacy will hurt the relationship by his feeling guilt. Guilt is something I won't feel, because I haven't struggled with a difficult marriage for all most 20 years. While I will never know if he will go into retreat or end things after we make love, I have some serious concerns about losing this kind and gentle man I have come to know. Something I don't want to happen.
I don't believe in "borrowing problems" but this has been weighing so heavily on my mind.
Has anyone experienced this before they became intimate with their MM/OM/MW/OW? How did you get past this.
Hiya otherone,
oh! I have been caught!
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