How long have u been in UR ema?

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How long have u been in UR ema?
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 5:10pm
HI all...

I was just wondering, how long have you been in your EMA?

Do the 2 of you plan to be together, exclusively, one day?

thanks =)

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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 5:15pm





Edited 9/18/2003 12:40:46 AM ET by lexylew
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Sat, 08-30-2003 - 5:34pm
I've known OM for a couple of years. The physical R started 4 months ago. He wants me to marry him; I know that will never happen.

Pug

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 8:02pm
MM and I have been in EMA for almost 3 years. I don't know where this is taking us, but I am pretty sure that we will never be exclusively together. He will never leave his W and I will never leave my H.

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RH

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Registered: 08-30-2003
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 8:23pm


I have been involved outside of my primary relationship for over a year now...it is long distance, so we don't get that much opportunity to spend time with each other, which is both good and bad...

*hugs*

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 8:45pm
We've known each other for almost 2 years, now. There's been a special fondness for each other all along, but we became physical back in May. I can't say with certainty that we'll wind up together exclusively. I do know that neither one of us wants this to end and we're planning on staying together indefinitely. But the wildcard is his g/f and how he decides, ultimately, that he feels about her. I think he's holding off counting on us getting together until he sees for sure that the divorce is going to happen. I don't blame him.

Lucky

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Registered: 08-12-2003
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 10:02pm
I have been involved in a EMA affair for about 2 and 1/2 months. This is the first time I have ever done this kind of thing. I would have never have down it but he asked me out. The way that he talks about "her", you know he wants to leave her. I hope it's a relationship that lasts because I can treat him much better than the way that she's been treating him.
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Registered: 08-21-2003
Sat, 08-30-2003 - 10:14pm
I've been seeing my MM for 6 Months off and on. We don't discuss the future, so I'm not sure how long this will last, but I'm to the point where I need to know where the relationship is headed. I'm afraid to ask because I have a feeling that he's going to tell me something that I don't want to hear.
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Registered: 05-07-2003
Sun, 08-31-2003 - 2:49am
hi...

MM and I have been together for 1 year and 7 months. Though we spent our time together everyday, which is Monday - Sunday, 3-4 hrs. after work and a whole day during Sat & Sun., we haven't talk about being together "exclusively". I just enjoy every moment i have with him. Whatever happens, happens.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-31-2003 - 8:11am
Good morning Lexy,

Hmmm...if I were to count the emotional that led up the affair, I would say it's been about 16 months, but counting from the time we admitted our attraction, it's been just over a year. But, who's counting, lol.

Yes, I would like MM's relationship with me to be exclusive because I don't like sharing him. Though, heaven forbid if he were to suddenly want to D and want a serious commitment! I've only just seperated and know I have more to learn and am looking forward to being on my own, and know too that he would have alot to work through...I would not be ready for that.

I'm not looking to what our relationship will become, just trying to enjoy what we have now.

Have a great day,

Meow

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Registered: 08-24-2003
Sun, 08-31-2003 - 8:30am
Hmmmm, I'm not exactly sure how to count it...

We've known each other 40 years, dated 38 years ago, thought of each other often over the years, reunited by email 3 months ago, realized that interest was piqued during a phone call 2 months ago, met for a couple hours 1 month ago to find that attraction and connection was there, and met again over the course of 2 days a week ago, when love was both professed and made.

I'd say either a month or 38 years.

Legs


Edited 8/31/2003 8:32:44 AM ET by longlegs2

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