How long have u been in UR ema?
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How long have u been in UR ema?
| Sat, 08-30-2003 - 5:10pm |
HI all...
I was just wondering, how long have you been in your EMA?
Do the 2 of you plan to be together, exclusively, one day?
thanks =)

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We are both married and neither of us would leave our spouse and family. We enjoy what we have together immensely and take each day as it comes.
I've been in my EMA now for just over 3 years... I never for a moment thought it would last this long... but I now never think for a moment if it will end.
I've always felt that MM would never leave his wife... no matter what and he's always stated that he will never leave her for another woman. As for me... while I was close to leaving DH a couple of years back... it's not the case anymore... and I'm still working on keeping my family together. I'm happy when he's happy... and I think the same can be said for him.
I feel I have something special with MM... and I enjoy what we have here and now... we don't talk of love or a future together... but we never talk about not being able to see each other... it's just not part of the big picture.
I must admit... that yes I dream of a future growing old together... but that's all it is... a dream and I understand and realise what we have together and as long as we can both deal with that... then why can't we love each other for what we do have.
I know it's wrong of me to want both my H and my lover... but at this point in my life I actually feel that I need both otherwise without one or the other... I could fail in both.
Sweet
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I'm not really sure how to answer this. This time we've been together 8 months, that is after almost a year and a half of NC. I guess it really started almost 4 years ago, but I'm sure if you asked his xW she would say it's been going on for 16 years. We've been friends that long and OM has admitted that he's loved me for 15 years.
We have a hard enough time planning time alone together, let alone the future. We have spoken vaguely of what things might be like if I weren't M, but having been friends for so long and knowing each other's deep dark secrets, we realize we may drive each other crazy if we ever really get together. I know that he will be in my future, I just don't know in what capacity. The one thing I know for sure is that he always comes back, and that makes me one lucky girl!
We talk about how things would be if we were "exclusive", but we know it won't happen, at least not for a long time. However, we never say never.
take care,
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